When Robby was born 25 years ago, our hearts were full of
joy and sadness. It is amazing to me how the Lord blesses us richly with both
simultaneously. We had looked forward to this treasured son with joyful
anticipation, and then we said goodbye to him with quiet and unrelenting grief.
Robby’s birth, and death; Robby’s life, his immortal soul
and spirit, richly blessed and solidified our family and our testimonies. His
few short days with us, growing in my womb and looking intently at us in the
hospital room were a testament of our Father’s love and goodness. Robby was an
angel sent from God to us, and he continues to be our angel child.
It is our testimony that the hospital where Robby was born
and passed away was holy ground that day. His spirit was there. The Spirit of
the Lord was there. Ancestors (and probably posterity) were there. The love of the
Lord was felt strongly. The compassion or the hospital staff was remarkable.
Ward members surrounded us with love. The Spirit embraced us in love. There could have been no greater peace.
The Lord’s promises are sure.
With empty arms, we went home. We learned to not keep
our arms empty, but to love our children here more; and to love all children
more. Life has become more precious and sweet. Whisperings from heaven have
become more treasured and sacred. Our goal to persevere and remain faithful has
become more solidified, because we want to be with Robby again, as we do with
all of our family members.
Had Robby’s mission been to stay and grow to adulthood, he
would be turning 25 on 8 February 2018. Heavenly Father’s plan was for Robby to
return home to heaven. That temporary loss still saddens us at times, but we
have faith in our Father’s Plan.
This year I would like to invite you to celebrate Robby’s
birth with us. It would me a lot to me if you do. I’m not asking you to donate
money to a charitable cause; but if that is what you choose to do, that is
wonderful.
What I’d like, as a gift to Robby and his parents and family
who have missed him, is for you to notice the children around you. Please think
of something special you can do for a child. Whether it is taking him or her sledding,
or baking cookies, or teaching him how to fly a kite, or reading a story with her;
please spend some time in February showing your love to children.
Life is precious. This life is short; but, eternity is our
promise. Love is everlasting.
Happy Birthday, Sweet Robby.
